From the time you were a little girl or boy you were probably given the message that you are supposed to get a good job (or go to college and then get a good job in your chosen field), get married, and raise a family once you “grow up”. Whether you liked it or not, your life was essentially planned out for you by your parents, other well-meaning adults and society in general.
Don’t get me wrong, there is absolutely nothing wrong with either of those paths in life. But if you are like many adults, especially those who followed a very traditional path in life, you may be wondering if that is all there is. In fact, after a few years (or decades) in a “good job” or career, or perhaps as a homemaker, you may feel that you’re not really living your true purpose in life. That something is missing deep down – a void or longing that is not being filled. Basically, that gnawing feeling that there is something more…and you weren’t invited to the party.
So how do you find your true purpose in life? Well, for starters, you must realize that absolutely no one else on the planet can tell you what your purpose is. It must come from deep within you. That being said, others may have already given you clues. For example, everyone has certain talents and abilities which are always in line with one’s true purpose. Now this doesn’t mean that just because you have a talent for music your life purpose is to be a musician. Usually, it goes a bit deeper than that.
Your true purpose in life isn’t necessarily something specific. It may be something more general which allows you to choose the direction which feels most right to you. Perhaps you are an eloquent communicator. Your true purpose could be that of being a motivational speaker, a writer, a politician or the CEO of a company.
Your true purpose will always be something which brings you a deep, profound sense of joy. You will always bring the most enthusiasm and dedication to something which gives you joy. If you are hesitant, reluctant, or feel an obligation, you are not aligned with your true purpose.
One of the best ways to find your true purpose is to spend some time journaling. You don’t have to write well, but putting your thoughts on paper can be very enlightening as well as empowering. Allow yourself to start writing freely….just let the words flow. And as you write, keep in mind these two questions:
Then come back to the Power Blog and let us know you true purpose.
